road trip buddy – 100 Road Trips

Entertainment is a must during a road trip. If you’re driving solo, you can listen to your favorite podcasts or audiobooks. But let’s be honest, a road trip with the right company is way more fun. On this list, there are a couple of road trip games you can play on your own, but you’ll need at least one other person to really make the most of them. Here’s how to break up the monotony of driving with road trip games.

1. The Classics: License Plates, 20 Questions, I Spy

How many license plates can you spot on the road? In this game, you keep an eye out for vehicles registered in different states and see if you can find one from every state. It’s a fun mix between your observation skills and geography knowledge.

Switch to the yes-no format of 20 Questions and use anything you see on the road as your object in mind. It could be anything from your steering wheel to a signpost to traffic lights to animals, and then have a great time guessing what the object is. Remember to limit the questions to 20 and give everyone on the trip a chance to participate.

“I spy with my little eye…” This game never gets old, making it perfect for road trips. There are so man clues you could come up with, from letters and numbers to locations and shapes on the road. It’s great for keeping little kids engaged, but you can also play an I-Spy version for adults, too. The fun is in the guessing, but you can make it more challenging by adding a time limit or points for each answer.

2. Memory Games: Alphabet and Patterns

Start with the letter A and find everything that begins with it for the next 10 or 20 miles, like signs, billboards, license plates, etc. You can tweak the alphabet game in numerous ways, like adding exceptions: find the letters on buildings only, or inside your car only, or at a rest stop. Have a reward for whoever spots the entire alphabet to make the game more interesting.

Challenge your memory with a pattern game and see how many objects each person can repeat in sequence. Take turns adding objects to the list until the sequence breaks, e.g., “I’m packing snacks for my road trip,” says one person, and the next adds, “I’m packing snacks and clothes for my road trip,” followed by, “I’m packing snacks, clothes, and a bike for my road trip,” and so on. You can add as many objects to the memory chain as you want. Start over if anyone breaks the sequence.

3. Storytelling Games: Create Your Own Adventure

The simplest way to get a good story going on a road trip is to start with, “Once upon a time…” From there, it’s anybody’s guess. Each person adds a sentence to the story, introducing a new character, scenario, twists and turns, and nobody knows the ending. You can turn this road trip game into a chain story, too, so that the next sentence in the sequence begins with the last word of the previous sentence. Or have each person contribute a single word that builds on the story.

Out of all road trip games, story chains are my absolute favorites. I find a certain freedom in just making up a story as you go along, which gives me an adventure within an adventure, being on the road and in fantasy land at the same time. The game can only get better the more creative you are!

4. Getting to Know Each Other: Hypothetical Questions

“Would you rather have a cat or a dog? Watch a movie or read a book? Stay home with takeout or party all night long?” These are simple questions that keep a conversation going on a road trip and reveal interesting things about all the players. It’s especially fun if your road trip buddy is a totally new person or someone you’ve wanted to know more about, even your partner. As one question leads to the next, you’ll have a wonderful conversation as the miles fly by on your road trip.

5. Brain Teasers: Riddles and Trivia

Consider downloading a riddle app for your road trip if you love a good mental workout. Choose an app with hundreds of riddles and levels, plus a good design to keep you engaged. Since most riddle apps need you to complete the answers on screen, take turns with them. If it’s your turn to drive, let your companion handle the app, and vice versa. Make it competitive and see who scores the most points.

Trivia apps can also make your road trip way more fun and interactive, so consider downloading a Jeopardy-style game before you head out. Have your companion use the app while you drive and take over when they get behind the wheel. Find a trivia app that works offline too, in case you travel out of coverage.

6. Hunt For Treasure: Geocaching and Scavenger Hunts

You can go on real-life treasure hunts on your road trip as a geocacher. All you need is a GPS device, a map, a pen, and a checklist of the caches along your route. You may also need some basic items like a torch, a multitool, or gloves to help you along–some caches are challenging to find. Choose a geocaching app, find coordinates along your route, and go hunting.

You can also create your own scavenger hunt game from your itinerary. List down the coolest or most fascinating things you’d like to see on the journey, like landmarks or animals, and stay on the lookout. The first person to spot them gets points or a reward at the next rest stop.

7. Break a Sweat: Road Trip Olympics

I always recommend stretching your legs during rest stops, whether that’s having a picnic at a scenic lookout or doing stretches whenever you park. Take it a notch higher and play some physically engaging games when you stop. Think of a round of charades to act out some of the landmarks or road signs you’ve seen so far, or “Simon says,” or even limbo using a rope as the bar. When you’re moving your body like that after hours behind the wheel, you’ll feel super refreshed and ready to get back on the road.

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Whether it’s your first road trip or your 100th, who you travel with can make or break the experience. The biggest mistake you can make is to assume that your spouse, partner, relative, or best friend would automatically make a good road trip companion. Why? A road trip is a completely different context: you’re traveling a long distance in a confined space, constantly making decisions from switching lanes to what to eat. So, what makes a compatible road trip companion? Let’s find out.

In this guide:

5 factors to consider when choosing a road trip buddy
5 common conflicts during a road trip
So, who’s the ideal road trip companion?
Where to find potential travel buddies
How to stay safe when vetting travel partners
Road trip match found: what next?
Resolving conflicts with a road trip partner

5 Factors to Consider When Choosing a Road Trip Buddy

1. Matching travel and adventure preferences

A good place to start is to figure out if you have similar interests. Here’s an example: Say you enjoy driving and going on outdoor adventures like camping or surfing, but your road trip partner would much rather fly to a destination and stay in a luxury hotel. See the trouble? Even if you both have open minds, your preferences do matter, especially if you encounter a stressful situation during the road trip.

2. You can plan the trip together

A road trip is much more fun when you and your travel partner(s) decide on the budget, itinerary, and activities together. It helps you spot potential differences and find workarounds long before you head out on the road. It also means you’ll be on the same page, minimizing conflicts. If one party does all the planning, difficult questions and problems may arise from the other parties.

3. Assigning road trip responsibilities

When it comes to sharing road trip responsibilities, determine which ones are divided equally and which depend on each person’s abilities. For example, create a driving schedule based on time or miles so everyone gets a turn behind the wheel and a break to avoid fatigue. Know who’s in charge of navigation, maintenance, supplies, entertainment, and finances. Safety should be everyone’s responsibility, so look out for each other on the road.

4. Understanding personal space

Personal space means both physical and emotional distance between individuals in order to feel comfortable, and it’s more important than ever on a road trip. Of course, you and your travel partner(s) are in one vehicle, but you all have your personal bubbles.

One may need a break in a quiet spot to recharge, or another may wear headphones the whole time. You may need individual tents instead of sharing while camping, or make a room divider at your shared motel or hotel room. Similarly, personal hygiene issues can violate personal space, so try to have everyone freshen up regularly.

5. Open communication

A lot of unexpected things happen on a road trip, which is partly why we love them so much. Maybe you want to take a detour, linger at a destination, or try something totally new. Talk about these things openly and clearly with your road trip partner, and listen to their feedback as well. Remember that communication on a road trip isn’t only about resolving conflicts. It’s about being flexible and spontaneous, ensuring everyone is on the same page.

5 Common Conflicts During A Road Trip

We’d all love to have that perfect road trip where everyone is happy and everything goes according to plan. In the real world, though, conflicts often arise, especially during extended trips. These include:

1. Itinerary issues

One person wants to stop, another wants to go; one person wants to stay at one destination, another wants to leave and move on. A change of plan, however big or small, is a common source of conflict between road trip partners.

2. Travel preferences

One person wants an easy, relaxed road trip, savoring each mile as it comes; another wants to pack as much into each mile as possible, see everything, and go everywhere at each destination. These differences can cause conflicts when exploring locations and activities on the road.

3. Driving and navigation roles

If one person does all the driving on the road trip, they may get tired, cranky, and easily triggered. If the designated navigator makes mistakes with directions, everyone on the road trip gets frustrated. These types of conflicts are particularly risky because they can lead to road and personal safety issues.

4. Privacy

One person wants a conversation, but another wants to read a book; one wants frequent bathroom stops, another wants an uninterrupted nap. Now imagine a camper with these individuals going on a cross-country road trip. These may seem like small things, but a long road trip can escalate them quickly.

5. Money

One person wants to try an expensive restaurant along the way, while another wants to firmly stick to the budget. Borrowing money from each other on a road trip is also poor practice; one person can end up financing the trip and never get paid back.

So, Who’s the Ideal Road Trip Companion?

Despite these potential challenges, you can certainly find your ideal road trip buddy. Go for someone who is:

Flexible: They are open to changes and easily adaptable.
Has a positive attitude: They are non-judgmental, optimistic, and have a healthy sense of humor.
A good communicator: They express their preferences clearly and respectfully and listen to feedback, too.
Organized: They can prepare for the road trip in good time, have their budget in order, and pack what they need for the journey.
Adventurous: They are willing to try new experiences and venture into unfamiliar places.
Independent: They are able to enjoy their own company and go off on their own if you have multiple attractions to explore in one destination.

That said, you should have these same traits to be a good road trip partner, too.

It would be great if a spouse, sibling, or best friend fit this description, but you can always find like-minded people with a little effort and some caution.

Where to Find Potential Travel Buddies

Road trip chemistry can be hard to find, so try these suggestions to find a good match for your adventure:

Social media: Follow travel-related content, groups, and discussions on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, etc. Engage with people or post your own travel buddy request and vet the responses.
Social apps: Meetup, Backpack, Travello, and Tourlina are all great places to find like-minded people for your road trip. Create your profile and reach out to potential travel buddies.
Hostels and lodges: You can start your trip solo and strike up conversations with the travelers you meet at your accommodations. Solo travelers are often more flexible with their itineraries and may be open to joining you on your drive.

How to Stay Safe When Vetting Travel Partners

Of course, these suggestions are not without some risk, so keep these safety tips in mind when you’re engaging with potential road trip partners:

Research the person online through social media or LinkedIn before meeting, and encourage them to do the same for you.
Video-chat first before meeting in person to weed out fakes and scammers.
Always meet in a public place during the daytime, e.g., at a coffee shop or park, rather than at home or in secluded locations.
Tell a friend or family member about where you’re going and who you’re meeting, plus their contact info.
Discuss your budget, itinerary, and other relevant details about your road trip before you commit to the journey.
That said, don’t give out your personal information, like your home address or bank accounts.
Rely on your intuition to signal if the person you’re meeting doesn’t feel right or makes you uncomfortable.
Always have a backup plan in case you don’t find a match by the time you’re leaving for your road trip. Be ready to venture alone instead of postponing your schedule.

Road Trip Match Found: What Next?

Let’s say you’ve followed these precautions and met a potential road trip buddy. They seem agreeable, and you can see your adventure going smoothly with them. However, keep a lookout for warning signs just before or during the early days of your road trip, e.g.,

The person becomes unresponsive or doesn’t respond to your messages in a timely manner
They become pushy or pressure you to change the itinerary or make decisions that go against your plans and values
Their background story changes, and you notice inconsistencies
They refuse to compromise or become inflexible when you need to make decisions on the road
They complain too much or show a negative attitude as your road trip progresses
They are disorganized, unpredictable, and unable to respect your personal space

Resolving Conflicts With A Road Trip Partner

If you see these issues arising, don’t be too quick to kick your road trip partner(s) out of your car. Remember, there are group dynamics at play here, so try these communication tips to help you work things out:

1. Address the issues as soon as you notice them

You don’t want to let a problem fester on a road trip. Instead, bring it up respectfully and talk it through to keep it from escalating.

2. Listen actively

Pay attention to your road trip buddy; pull over if you need to. Put away any distracting gadgets and equipment. Ask follow-up questions and clarify that you understand their perspective.

3. Avoid blaming

In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to blame your road trip buddy for misfortunes. Instead of saying, “You keep doing this,” say, “I feel uncomfortable when this happens.” This is a much better way to express your grievance.

4. Avoid attacking the person

Similarly, it’s easy to take out our frustrations with name-calling or insults when we’ve been driving for miles in close quarters with no break in sight. Look at the issue causing the problem, not the individual. Be objective and focus on a solution.

5. Apologize

In the process of resolving the conflict, you may realize you were wrong or misunderstood your road trip buddy. Say sorry and take responsibility to avoid issues recurring in the future.

6. Find a middle ground

A road trip offers a higher level of flexibility than other types of travel, so you can certainly agree on a compromise if you’re facing challenges with your itinerary. Consider making a tradeoff around time spent and which activities to take.

7. Problem solved? Move on

Don’t dwell on the issue or hold a grudge once you’ve agreed on a solution. Let it go and enjoy the road trip.

8. Problem unresolved? Use your contingency plan

If all else fails, you may need to part ways with your road trip buddy. That’s where your contingency comes in. All parties should have money set aside for just such a situation. They can rent a car or use public transportation to find their way.

9. Try again

You’ve learned your lessons, but don’t give up on finding the right road trip companion. Road trip chemistry is very possible to find, and it makes the effort worthwhile.